Tuesday, February 5

Bellasapiosexual.........no??




Now What? 

So a friend of mine claims that he is sapiosexual!!! And I say, 'wash joo!' to that. 

Before I pretend I have always known or heard this word, I must confess that seeing the word for the first time today sent me running to the very famous 'Google' for help, and this is what I found ---> 

Sapiosexual: A behavior of becoming attracted to or aroused by intelligence and its use or a person who is sexually attracted to intelligent people

Errrr…….. My point is that I am not too sure I believe a guy can be simply sapiosexual, based on this definition, as guyz are first and foremost, ‘visual beings’. Before your intelligence shines out to them, your looks must first attract them. I don’t think a guy would be attracted to an unattractive but intelligent lady. Therefore the word shouldn’t be  used by guyz! 

Me thinks we need a word that incorporates beauty and intelligence.

Fixer that I am *solemn face* I'm here to rescue the situation. 

Here is my suggestion: since ‘sapio’ is of Italian origin meaning or relating to wise or sensible (latin origin from sapien also means wise) , and ‘bella’ is used to describe a beautiful lady, I’d say something like ‘bellasapiosexual'. So we can now have

Bellasapiosexual: A behavior of becoming attracted to or aroused by a fine blend of beauty and intelligence or a person who is sexually attracted to intelligent-cum-beautiful people.

*dusts hands*

Yeah! It’s a mouthful but definitely more appropriate. (and it has bella in it!! :p) Maybe, just maybe someday in the future this word will be accepted and adopted by many and find itself in the urban dictionary and I will be credited for this spell of wisdom. But till then.......

Hasta la vista!!!  

Monday, February 4

Why not?......Yes(iCan)!




According to Rev. James Martin S.J (a catholic priest and author of The Jesuit Guide to (Almost) everything), there are seven things one ought to say frequently (why not):

Thank you...................................
  I love you................................
    Thank you, God.....................
      I'm so happy for you!...........
        Forgive me...................
          Why not?.................
             Yes (iCan)...........

I can proudly say I v been doing well with the first five but not so good with my 'why not' and 'yes(iCan)'. So from now (note that 'now' is no exact time), i choose to say 'Why not?' and 'Yes(iCan)!'.





So I ll bring you anything....Catered by Bella.... 

By definition, 'catered' is to provide with what is needed or required. So I ll simply be catering for whatever is needed or required-food n others. 


Disclaimer: I swear that this is not only about food! no? *sighs deeply* I ll try to make it not just about food but pretty much every and any thing Catered by Bella